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Episode 76: Transforming your Relationship through Resolution NOT Compromise with Emmy Hernandez

Emma O'Brien Season 1 Episode 76

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This episode is essential listening for anyone who's in a romantic relationship. My guest, love expert Emmy Hernandez, sheds light on the concept of compromise and why it's actually a lose-lose scenario every time.

Emmy shares how to, instead, reach a resolution when disagreements arise.

We talk about:

  • Exactly why compromise is bad for everyone
  • Understanding the true 'ask' that's under a conflict situation
  • The negative impact childhood trauma and baggage has on adult relationships
  • Why being self-aware is so damn important for a healthy relationship
  • How to effectively communicate your needs to your partner
  • Relationship expectations vs reality
  • Summoning up the courage to ask curious questions when a conflict happens
  • How to respect your partner's perspective, even when you don't agree with them
  • Setting the stage for open communication
  • The worst four words you can use  in your relationship (and what to say instead)

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation with Emmy and, as you will hear, I had a few 'aha'  moments of my own along the way!

Visit Emmy's website: www.soulmateloveuniversity.com 

Pop her a message to get her free e-book AND access to her mini-course here.

Connect with Emmy on Instagram @relationshipmindsetmastery

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